Is my spouse cheating on me? How many times have married couples pondered on this simple yet profound question? A question that can make or break a marriage… I’m sure at one point or another in the years of being married, this question has crossed the minds of married couples; more so if the couples are going thru a rough patch.
During difficult times, a minor misunderstanding can be blown out of proportion.
Most affairs start out at work place given that we spend a good deal of our time in the office especially if your work is project base. If you regularly meet up with your spouse’s co-workers and one day if you find that the friendly camaraderie that exists between you suddenly turns uncomfortable. Chances are your spouse is having an affair with yours truly or they’ve had a minor fling. That would explain the awkwardness that you are experiencing.
A change in behaviour is apparent when you have something to hide. This goes the same for spouses who are cheating too. They’ll be very edgy and when questioned, usually give a very elusive kind of answer. Spending hours on end in front of the computer long after you are in bed, giving the excuse that work is piling up and when you check their mailbox, it is surprisingly empty.
If your spouse suddenly shows extreme interest in a certain activity which he or she has absolutely no interest in till recently, you need not take a second guess that something is amiss. This new interest is usually followed up by a preoccupation with their appearance; such as a new hair style, going on a shopping spree to replenish the wardrobe with the latest fashionable clothes.
If that is not enough to arouse your suspicions, then the frequent phone calls where conversations are carried out in a low voice or barely audible whispers should sound the alarm in your head. The next time you see your spouse receiving such calls, walk up to him or her, chances are the conversation will end before you are within earshot. And if you happen to pick up your spouse call, the caller would immediately hang up.
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