In the first place, most men and girls tend to go for a partner about their own age. But do you have to? One of the easiest ways of increasing your number of dates considerably is to move out of your age group.
If you want to give this a try then the simplest rule for success is to understand HER reasons for wanting an older or younger man – NOT your own reasons for wanting them!
If you want to move in on older girls remember that they place a bit more importance on the physical and sexual side of things than younger girls. Again, it’s the complete opposite of what men usually think! This isn’t to say that personality doesn’t count too. Play it confident and mature, but don’t overdo it – She probably wants to feel younger herself and that’s what she wants from you.
Younger girls are especially attracted to qualities such as confidence and maturity – often because they’ve found it hard to find them in men their own age. So, don’t act like the men her age who she probably thinks are immature – In fact, the secret for success is to look at the lads you’d expect her to be dating and don’t do what they do!
You’ll be more successful if you remember to adjust your technique slightly in each case. A younger girl is likely to be easier to open-up and chat with in the first place, but harder to score with in the end – She’ll need a lot more convincing and reassuring before she’s ready to move on to the warm-up. Older girls usually expect you to work harder at the open-up and chat-up levels but, once you’ve established a relationship properly, she should be more eager to get things moving. ( If you’re lucky she may even take the lead! )
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Special thanks to Kevin Gaynor for his valuable contribution
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