It depends on the situation, but don't think of it as "hugging, kissing, or shaking hands." Think of it as basically physical touching, and do it whenever it could come off as the most natural thing to do. For example, when talking to a woman at a bar (which might be...

How many times have you felt the urge to impress a girl you've just met ? I'm talking about the kind of burning need that you feel, the compulsive urge that tells your brain that you've got to impress this girl at any cost; the kind of impression that leaves your...

I've told you before that you need to put a woman to work for you when you're not around. (No, I don't mean changing the car oil or moving your barbells up to the attic.) I call this effect "marinading" her, because what you're attempting to do is to make her think...

Just as men are drawn to FEMININE women, women are drawn to men who EXUDE overflowing masculinity. What is MASCULINITY? It's about being ULTRA comfortable with yourself and not needing the approval of ANYONE. Maybe that's where the mystique of the LONE male hero came...

About a week ago I took a poll asking "How did you meet the last woman that you dated?" 479 men responded (thanks again to those who did). The breakdown was as follows: 199 MET HER "WHILE OUT" No surprises there, right? Meeting a woman "while out" is such a broad,...

Meeting new people doesn't have to involve a conscious effort. Just participating in activities you enjoy or running daily errands can lead to meeting new people without even trying. Of course, if your favorite activity is watching television it is unlikely that this...

STEP 1 Back when I was a kid, I was in the Boy Scouts. Now, anyone who knows anything about the Boy Scouts will know that tried and true motto: Always Be Prepared. It's simple, it's elegant, and most importantly - it's damn effective! In life, this motto will help you...

Case Studies and Example Talking out the trash Valerie, an attractive esthetician, met her husband while hauling her trash cans out to the roadside curb. Milton, a tall, blonde, computer software salesman, lived two doors down and was outdoors when he spotted Valerie...

I want to explain something called pacing. If you learn to pace, you can develop an opener for ANY walk-up situation you can think of. In pacing, you comment on whatever you see them doing or comment on the situation. For instance, if a woman is reading a book in the...