This week I want to talk about an obvious point that's taken me a few years to really notice. The idea is simple: We humans don't want what everyone else has... we want what everyone else has AND MORE. In the context of women and dating, it goes like this: WOMEN...

>>>QUESTION : Hi Dave, I'm glad you put together this newsletter because it's so helpful and awesome! But anyways, I have a couple questions if you could please help me. Number 1, I have your book and follow your stuff and I LOVE IT...to say the least. I've...

I get a lot of guys who write in to ask me how to behave around women. Many of those questions focus on the first meeting or the first date. I thought I'd devote one entire newsletter to a concept that I feel is VITAL to understand if you're wondering how to behave...

Hello, I just bought your book today and I have to admit it was the best choice ever. Before I bought your book I was the shy "nice" guy who would always try to cling on girls and hardly ever talk to any and was always wondering why I couldn't get any phone #'s or...

I'd like to address a problem that is so common that it seems silly to even mention it. It's the idea that too often we use our powerful minds and emotions to cause ourselves to FAIL with women rather than SUCCEED with women. Fear of women can actually become a HABIT...

Let me ask you something... When you approach or start talking to a woman that you're "interested" in, what is your attitude toward her ? How do you treat her? What are you THINKING ABOUT ? Do you start the interaction by trying to figure out if she's single ? Do you...

THE FIRST DATE ISN'T AN INTERVIEW The first thing to remember when you're meeting up with a girl for "a date" is that it's NOT an INTERVIEW. You're not applying for a job (and neither is she), so don't act like it. It's so funny to me when I sit down in a restaurant...