Dating / Relationship Question and Answer   13 July 2001   It's Never Too Late To Date     Hi Doc,   I am 39, never married, and rarely dated. I am trying to get on my feet career and finance wise, but it is hard because I don't date or look...

Dating / Relationship Question and Answer   12 Sept 2001   Take That Risk !   Many men and women aren't successful in meeting or dating because they aren't willing to take a risk - the risk to say "hello", the risk to say "yes", the risk to ask for a...

Dating / Relationship Question and Answer   02 May 2001   What To Do When You Just Can't Seem To Let Go   Hi Dr. Neder:   I hope you have some good advice besides telling me to get over this woman. I'm doing my best on that (primarily by dating...

Dating / Relationship Question and Answer   31 Oct 2001   10 Ways to Know When Your Relationship Is "Right"     I spend much of my time pointing out where things went wrong with this person's approach, or that person's relationship, etc. I thought...

Dating / Relationship Question and Answer   09 May 2001   Speak Up! - Getting What You Want in Bed (for Women)   I get a lot of reader mail. Much of it from women, complains about how men don't know how to please their girlfriends. I always have the...

Dating / Relationship Question and Answer   22 Nov 2001   You Can't "Own" Someone Else !     I have been with the same guy for 9 months.  He has been married twice and has 4 children. The first 6 months things were really good. We became serious...

Dating / Relationship Question and Answer   13 July 2001   What Are Your Goals ? Girl-Friend or Girlfriend ?     What's up Doc?   I have a friend who I've gotten very close to in the past few months and I think I'm falling in love with her. I...

Dating / Relationship Question and Answer   8 Nov 2001   She Doesn't Need Another Girlfriend     I read your article "What are your goals Girl-Friend or girlfriend?" and it relates to my situation. I met this girl a couple of years ago in an art...

Dating / Relationship Question and Answer 14 Nov 2001 Have Confidence - Fake it Until You Make It! Hey, it's me again. There is one thing I kind of struggle with, and that is confidence. Everyone knows they are attracted to confidence, but what exactly is confidence? ...