How To Get HER To Pay For The Date
Sounds great, huh?
A friend of mine recently pulled this off as they went for a movie date and SHE paid for their tickets. As they sat down, she gave him a $50 bill to go get them something to eat and he could keep the change.
It’s DAMN fun getting girls to do this but it only works about ½ the time (no one girl’s the same, remember?)
The idea is to let her know that she’s taking you out and paying.
This is not sneaky nor manipulative but just the way it is.
There’s 2 steps to doing this….
Step 1:
This needs to be covered before or when you get her number during the approach. I usually tell her indirectly, not directly because directly comes across as sneaky actually more than smooth.
Just tell her “Well if you’re lucky, I’ll let you buy me dinner sometime, how about I get your number and we’ll figure out when you can take me out.” (say it with a straight face).
Notice how it’s done.
The roles are reversed and it comes out pretty smoothly, and I’m not trying to avoid telling her SHE’S taking ME out.
It’s better than most guys saying “Well, let me have your number and if it’s okay I’ll give you a call and maybe take you out to dinner sometime, if it’s okay?”
He has to pay, PLUS it’s just plain L-A-M-E.
This can be used in the bar scene well, where if you’re talking to a girl, just say “Well, I think I’m gonna’ head back home (or to where my friends are), but if you’d like to buy me a drink, I ‘could’ stay and talk with you a little longer.” (smile)
Notice it’s the same idea.
Except that she’s buying you drinks this time.
Step 2:
This needs to be reapplied on the phone, once again, you’ll need to say something like “So, you’re taking me out right? Ok, now how about tomorrow night, and we’ll meet at 7?”
Simple, right?
But I’m seriously SHOCKED at how guys are not doing this at all!
Now don’t let her back down ok… whatever the cost!
Let her know that you don’t like girls who back out and you EXPECT her to keep her word.
(Don’t worry she won’t get mad and leave if that’s what you’re thinking)
Do this and you’ll come across as someone with STANDARDS and you’re comfortable with who you are as a person and you’re not afraid to let others know that.
This advice is magic and I should start charging $100 just to give out this single technique because guys will probably save hundreds or even THOUSANDS a year if this is applied correctly.
I suggest you study this idea over and over, make up your own techniques to fit your own personality and style along the way.
On the other hand, if you still think it isn’t your thing or it won’t work for you, that’s fine I’d just say don’t bother.
