With many women you can’t dive into the topic of sex directly. Sure, party girls often LIKE to hear you talk about sex as long as you’re totally relaxed about it, but with most average girls if you bring up the topic of sex directly too soon it can turn her off.
For example, if you directly ask a woman out of the blue, “So, do you ever fantasize about lesbian sex?” you may turn her off unless you have really strong rapport with her and she’s totally comfortable with you. And even then if you say it in an overly eager way it will make you look needy.
What works much more effectively is to get her sexual imagination running through the use of funny and entertaining stories. Through a story you can talk about sexual topics about OTHER people and at the same time make her laugh – which bypasses her normal, logical defense mechanisms.
Here’s a story I like to use.
“It’s so funny how interesting things happen when you least expect it… get this, this is SO funny. My friend Jessica was on Spring Break in Pensacola. She met some really cool people in her hotel, especially this one guy and these two girls he was with. These two bisexual blondes who were always kissing in front of them. Can you believe that?? So the last night she was there, she and this guy were in her hotel room making out, and the two bisexual girls were in the adjacent room. The only thing that separated them was this flimsy, thin door between the rooms with a lock.
So they began to hear one of the blondes moaning and screaming… like ahhh, oooh (make some funny orgasmic sounds here in a girly voice)… they knew what was happening but it was so funny because they were really going at it and it was getting loud! Then they heard a VIBRATOR sound. So they were laughing quietly… and even put their ears close to the door to listen. Can you imagine that? She told me it was a real turn on and that as the sounds got louder and louder, they couldn’t contain themselves and began kissing more passionately. And pretty soon they were both naked and going at it as well.
The next day my friend said it was hard to hide their secret, because she couldn’t keep a straight face around the two blondes and would always bust up laughing. She said she never had so much fun in her life…. have you ever done anything crazy like that?”
That’s the story. What this does is,
- Introduces sex in a playful manner that happened to someone else so that her defenses go down.
- Gets her laughing so that her defenses go down.
- Gives her an example of a girl going wild and bisexuality and demonstrating that I’m cool with it. In other words, I won’t judge her negatively if she does the same.
- Engaged the part of her mind that is adventurous and naughty.
Stories allow a woman to put aside her logical mind and just listen. It’s very hypnotic and trance like. After all, it’s not about her- it’s about someone else. She’ll also attach the ideas of sexual adventure, fun, romance, and travel all to you within a matter of seconds, even if the story wasn’t about you. As long as YOU tell the story to her she will associate the feelings she gets with YOU.
Best of all, you can use the same story over and over again.
At this point ask, “Have you ever done anything crazy like that?”
If she says “not really” or gives you any kind of answer that is kind of lame or boring just say to her, “Oh, well I can only talk to ADVENTUROUS girls!” with a smile, kind of like you might be kidding. Then say, “Well, what IS it that you going for you? Or you at least passionate?”
Here you’re putting her in a position where she has to share an intimate story about herself or else she’s a bore and will lose your approval.
Ha ha, this stuff is so much fun 😉
