Guys, the one thing you need most to land the women is confidence. Anyone can clean up, groom themselves and dress well, but if you don’t have the confidence to make her feel like she is in good hands, you won’t get anywhere.
In fact, in all the charismatic people I’ve met, they’ve all had 2 traits that stood out;
Confidence and Outgoingness
Never be shy or afraid to talk to anyone, say what you want or feel you need to say, and look them right in the eye. I have even “perfected” a smoldering stare that works wonders. I give the look to a woman of any age, and if she likes what she sees at all, I get a look back, or a smile, but I’ve learned to read the signs. You can too.. it’s just a matter of knowing people and having that confidence.
For instance, I was on an adult phone service, and I had put a profile in that smacked of confidence, almost arrogant in tone, and let it stand on the system for the workweek. Friday night I checked my messages, over 20 responses, and all the women were either saying I turned them on, impressed them, and most wanted to talk to me more or just plain meet me as soon as possible. The next week I had a 21 year old woman come to my place and give her self over to me. I did everything to her over 2 or 3 meetings, and had a great time, but left her with the best time she’s ever, ever had (her words). After that, things sort of snowballed and almost got out of hand. I did a couple, two girls, roomates, 20 and 18, and a few more single women of various ages and marital status. I expect at least the same success here, as I have just gotten better for my experiences. My friends, there is no reason you can’t go out and fufill your wildest fantasies. I am sucessful because it’s not all for me, no way.
The person you’re with must be on the same page, sexually, and then you’re doing it for the mutual satisfaction and excitement. One thing you must realize, is for the most part, people live regular lives, and the excitement is not there. Many, many people are looking for the bigger and better, and all I do is give women the chance to do the exciting, on the edge things that they long to do, dream about while on coffee break or sitting in the office or at the store.
Just be aware of the other person in as many ways as you can, and you are closer to them than many already, because most people aren’t aware or are just thinking of themselves. Bottom line is, get to know them, honestly, and let them know you, honestly, and be up front about who you are and what you like. You’d be surprised at the results.
Contributed by Jack
