Hi David,
I’ve to say I’ve learnt a lot from your newsletters.
Thanks for the emails though keep up the great job!
I’ve a question and i hope you could help. There is this girl that was recently introduced by a friend and she’s really hot! She’s a HB9 no doubt! Now I’ve been carefully studying and applying the stuff I’ve learnt from your newsletters and it seems to be working because she’ll willing to go on a date with me, just the two of us!
But now I’m just not sure of what I’m supposed to say or do when I’m with her. I don’t want to screw this up especially after all the effort I put in on this one. Please help me I really really like her!
Appreciate your reply. Thanks GD.”
>>> David Says:
Thanks for the kind words G.
There’s a common joke amongst the players within our community that says that when a first guy meets a girl he likes, he’ll instantly feel as if he’s met a potential wife.
But when a girl comes across a guy she likes, she’ll let cupid work its magic and see how things goes…
That couldn’t be more true.
Look around you. Haven’t you noticed that when a guy first meets a girl he likes, he’ll instantly think that she’s ‘the one’.
He’ll think that he’s in love, that she has the potential to be the ‘love of his life’ even though he doesn’t know ANYTHING about her at all??
Sounds crazy I know, but as irrational as it may sound, I’ve done it before myself, and I can pretty much vouch that you and practically 98% of guys has felt the same way too lol!
Why?
Well, that’s just how we men are wired to be but now that you’re aware of it, it’s absolutely crucial for you to STOP yourself from repeating the same mistake ever again!
Think about it.
When you think you’ve met the ‘love of your life’, how will it make you feel?
Nervous, anxious, over-excited?
Won’t you do everything in your power to NOT to ‘screw up’ your chances with her, won’t you become more CONSCIOUS of what you’ll be saying, acting and doing in front of her?
Of course you would.
But can you see how much unnecessary pressure & tension you’re putting yourself in then?
And the paradox to it all as that the more you try not to ‘screw up’ your chances, the more you’ll end up screwing it worst than ever before!
I’d say the best way to not screw up your chances with women is to play it safe. And believe you me, being ‘safe’, not taking chances and risks with women is BORING to women.
Why?
Because that’s exactly the kind of men that are hitting on them everyday!
Haven’t you noticed how when a man first meets a woman he likes, he’ll usually act all nervous, fidgity and overly anxious to impress his date?
He’ll be thinking “Gosh you’re beautiful, I’m so into you, I just know you’ll be a wonderful girlfriend. I’ll do anything for you.”
Or even…
“You’re soo hot, I sooo wanna bang you”
On the other hand, women will be thinking “You’re interesting to me. I’d like to get to know you better and we’ll see how things goes.”
You’ll also notice that they are the ones that are usually more laid back when they’re on dates.
Can you see the considerable DIFFERENCES men and women approach in dating?
So how’s a guy supposed to act around women then?
Well, for starters, STOP THINKING THAT EVERY WOMAN YOU MEET MIGHT VERY WELL BE THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE… duh!!
For me, I’d always be looking for something, anything; her dress sense, her accessories, her handbag, her heels, her actions; whatever it is to bust on her (There’s ALWAYS something you can focus on) and turn the tables implying how SHE’S the one who’s screwing up her chances with me.
If she’s local and I’m from out of town, and she wasn’t sure of her directions, I’ll just shake my head and go “this relationship just isn’t going to work out”
If she fumbles as she’s pouring herself coffee I’ll shake my head and go “this relationship just isn’t going to work out”
Using the “this relationship just isn’t going to work out” has never failed in doing ‘the job’ =)
As we’re talking, when she accidentally mispronounces, ‘eats’ or fumbles her sentences (this happens to all of us sometimes), I’ll just shake my head again and just breath a playful sigh… “Are you ALWAYS like this?”
Can you see where I’m trying to get at here?
I’m doing the exact OPPOSITE of what most guys do.
I’m saying “I’m here to get to know you but I’m also here to have fun. Still, I could care less what you think of me but I’m comfortable & confident enough to make fun of you so we’ll see where this goes :-)”
There are SPECIFIC things you MUST do when you’re in the midst of building attraction with a woman, and for a COMPLETE education & understanding of what these are, I’ve carefully listed and explained EVERYTHING in detail here in the Instant Attraction Program ebooks and audios and I’m finally getting what women want and what they view men now.
I’m having some success with women at the moment in fact I have this one girl it has come to a point where we connect so emotionally well I could say anything and I’m confident she’ll follow.
It’s true what you say, deep down women WANT a confident man to them but we’ve got to have that certain degree of charm in our ‘confidence display’ lol.
Thanks a bunch for your tips but dude, do u have any material on how to give a girl a super time in bed? Not normal but SUPER ya know what I mean hahaha I’ll be going out with her again in the next couple of days and i just want to show her what a MAN i am lol 🙂
>>> Simon Says:
Props to you buddy glad to know it helped 🙂
Nope I don’t have any materials on the stuff you’ve just mentioned but I do know a friend who’s EXCELLENT at teaching guys how to give multiple volcanic orgasms to women several times a night!
No kidding.
I use them myself right now and it like sooooo works babeh! lol.
Download it here.
And pay special attention to Aaron’s “Secret Twitch” and “Coup Des Gras” technique 😉
Talk to you soon.
Your Friend,
David Kwan
