Never forget that the chat up isn’t all about what you SAY. What you DO is just as important, if not more important. So always think about everything you do.
If you act TOO MACHO she will just assume that you can never care for or love someone – and a girl can NEVER find someone like this sexually attractive. It’s for this reason that ice-cold stares, aggressive behaviour and treating-em-mean-to-keep-em-keen is usually a mistake. But well controlled physical power is a big turn on to girls and so you should always let her see that you’ve got the power!
Many girls have reported that there’s one thing that makes a man really IRRESISTIBLE to them. This is to be HARD on the outside but SOFT on the inside. Yes – you’re a man – masculine and maybe a bit aggressive on the surface. But, when you’re with her you’re just a little kid at heart. Now it sounds stupid to me too – but girls seem to love it!
All the following tricks can help
Always keep her in eye contact.
Always laugh and smile as much as possible.
Always stand face-to-face with her not side-by-side and not too near -So she can see you from head to toe.
Don’t be afraid to ‘pose-it-up’ at this stage. Stand up straight. Stick your chest out a little. Smooth your hair. All these things tell her you’re trying to look good just for her Girls know about and understand these things.
BUT – If you get the chance, get lower than her! Sit when she’s standing or crouch when she’s sitting etc. This makes her feel more powerful and it’s the very reason why small men can often be very successful.
Look interested in everything she says, even if you know it’s wrong.
Touch her LIGHTLY. But don’t ‘paw’ her at this stage. Don’t put your arm right round her, or on her thigh. These say ‘you are mine’ and are big turn-offs BEFORE SHE’S READY to be yours
Don’t fidget with your tie/drink/change/pen etc. These are obvious signs of nervousness and lack of confidence which are very unattractive to her.
Next : How to Make Her Believe Every Word You Say
Further Readings : https://www.datingadviceguru.com/5-biggest-turn-ons-guys-men-find-sexy/
Special thanks to Kevin Gaynor for his valuable contribution
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